Dear Wing Ma'am: I want to go back to school

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DEAR WING MA'AM: This year, I want to go back to school and finish my bachelors degree. I'm nervous and worried that I can't do it while balancing my work and family. Am I biting off more than I can chew? ~College Bound

DEAR COLLEGE BOUND: Going back to school is no easy venture; however, budgeting your time appropriately will facilitate a more easier path for you to pursue your educational dreams WHILE balancing work and family. Making the decision to go back to school impacts everyone in your family. You're going to need the support and help of everyone in your home to contribute in getting the household chores and other responsibilities accomplished. This includes the kids pitching in and staying on top of their homework and chores. In addition, discussions about how to finance your education should be made and planned far in advance.

Time management is going to be the key. You will need to be much more organized with your time, than you already are. Your family will need to get on a routine.

Talk to your supervisors about your plan to engage in classes. Be ready to discuss potential impact to your employer; whether that is getting on day shift or leaving work on time to make your night classes.

Talk to your college education counselor about the course offerings, schedules, scholarships and tuition. Traditional college classes may be more challenging with your schedule; however, there are many classes available on base, on-line, at night or on the weekends. For military members, keep in mind you can get credit for some of your military training and experiences; talk to an education counselor (828-3115) for guidance. Don't forget there are a variety of CLEP/DANTE tests available as well.

As you progress through this challenge, remember to take good care or yourself by eating well and getting enough sleep. Remember, even completing one course is one course closer to finishing your bachelor's degree. Your education is a long term investment in yourself that will benefit everyone around you! Go for it!

Dear Wing Ma'am is written by Capt. Christy Cruz, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. Wing Ma'am works as the Resiliency Program manager and clinical therapist at MacDill AFB. If you want to ask Wing Ma'am for advice, please send your questions to 6mdos.sgoh@us.af.mil. Letters are kept anonymous. Rights are reserved to edit published letters for style and length. Not every question can be answered. This column seeks to educate readers and should not be used as a substitute for seeking professional assistance.