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  • Dear Wing Ma'am: "Too busy to spend time with each other..."

    DEAR WING MA'AM: The last couple years have been a whirlwind. With deployments, kids getting out of school, work schedules and everything in between, my husband and I have really become close roommates rather than a loving couple. It's starting to feel like we are too busy to spend time together,

  • Dear Wing Ma'am: "We fight about how to spend our money"

    DEAR WING MA'AM: I am so frustrated!!! We get along on most issues , except when it comes to how we run our finances. We fight about how to spend it, which bills to pay and how much we spend when we go out. I feel like we are living pretty much paycheck to paycheck.... and it is stressful! We just

  • Dear Wing Ma'am: "Works is getting stressful"

    DEAR WING MA'AM: Things at work are getting really unbearable. The ops tempo is at a break neck pace and it's starting to effect how I feel about my job. The pressure to meet deadlines and the workload is nuts! The other folks in my shop are starting to show it too. It's affecting my marriage and my

  • Dear Wing Ma'am: I just feel a little blue

    DEAR WING MA'AM: I've been feeling a little blue this holiday season. Everyone seems so much more happier than I. It just doesn't feel like the holidays to me this year. What's my problem? ~ Mr. KringleDEAR MR KRINGLE: Sometimes we just don't feel as merry as we "think" we should. This could lead to

  • Dear Wing Ma'am: I want to go back to school

    DEAR WING MA'AM: This year, I want to go back to school and finish my bachelors degree. I'm nervous and worried that I can't do it while balancing my work and family. Am I biting off more than I can chew? ~College BoundDEAR COLLEGE BOUND: Going back to school is no easy venture; however, budgeting

  • Dear Wing Ma'am: If I could, I would do it all over

    DEAR WING MA'AM: Six months ago, I retired from the Army after 24 years of service. During that time, I met courageous and honorable people, traveled to the far corners of the world, helped defend my country and helped mold future soldiers. If I could, I would do it all over again. I still get up at

  • Dear Wing Ma'am: I've been having a hard time falling

    DEAR WING MA'AM: I am working full-time, sometimes more. Usually, when I go to sleep, I can just put my head down and I'm out in less that 20 minutes. Lately, I've been having a hard time falling asleep and am having trouble keeping my energy up all day at work. I really don't want to use

  • Dear Wing Ma'am: Lonely and in need of a friend

    DEAR WING MA'AM: The holidays were great because I had more time to spend with my husband and our baby. Now that he's back to work every day, I'm feeling rather lonely not having another person to talk to. I'm a new mom and want to connect with other 'adults'.... What can I do? ~Baby on BoardDEAR

  • Dear Wing Ma'am: Lonely and in need of a friend

    DEAR WING MA'AM: I'm a lucky man. I have a career, financial security, healthcare, a beautiful wife who loves me and helps support the family and a healthy child. The only thing we really argue about is how to divide up the household chores. Help - someone's gotta keep this mess under control! ~ Mr.

  • Dear Wing Ma'am: We fight about the most ridiculous things

    DEAR WING MA'AM: My girlfriend and I fight about the most ridiculous things, but it seems to end up in a huge argument that we both regret later. Sometimes, we call each other nasty names or we'll stop talking to each other for days at a time just to hurt each other's feelings. We really want to